First Things First

We would love to up and leave tomorrow on this crazy adventure, but we have to be realistic. There are some things that have to be done first and we have decided that me finishing school is one of them. I have officially made it through my first two weeks. It wasn’t easy, I’ve already had two exams, a case study, six clinical skills, and a sixteen page research paper assigned. It’s been difficult balancing the housework (or lack of), school work, and family time. Somehow I survived these first weeks by applying my strange tactics. There have been a lot of one pan, 5 ingredient or less dinners. I have spent a lot of time reading and sniffing rosemary oil in hopes that the research about it improving memory retention is correct. I have also strategically planned my pretest eating to ensure proper carb and protein ratio. While I’m busy keeping the house together and doing whatever strange thing I can to make it through nursing school, my boyfriend is busy looking for a second job to support us and help us save up. So far we have sold a few things on Ebay and have been busy inventorying his huge action figure collection. A month ago we rented a storage unit to store his collection along with a number of our other belongings . This has helped us to clear out the house a bit and go through things in order to purge things. We have already gotten rid of a lot of stuff. In less than a year we will be living in a tiny house that moves and most of what we have now won’t be joining us. It’s all so overwhelming and exciting at the same time.

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RV Crazy or What?

About a year or so ago we were watching “My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding”, we were fascinated by the traveling lifestyle. The men ran around working and the women dressed wild and spent a ridiculous amount of time cleaning their tiny homes on wheels. We weren’t always this into trash reality TV, we started watching it to get our minds off stuff during a terrible time in our lives and now we’re hooked! One night I said “hunny, when are you buying me my very own camper to clean?” and from then on it became an inside joke….until a while ago. We currently live in Southeastern Wisconsin, I’m bored with it and he hates the cold, well he hates Wisconsin period. About a year ago we decided we should move and after much research and a vacation we fell in love with the Rocky Mountains and Colorado. We knew it would take a lot of planning and saving up and decided it was best I finish school here with in state tuition. So I got into the Nursing Bridge Program and we signed another twelve month lease at our apartment. The plan was finish school, save up, and move. All the planning involved was stressing me out. How do we find a place to rent that is in budget and allows us to have three dogs? How do we look at places? What side of town do we want to live on and in what city? Then we started watching “Gypsy Sisters”, a spin off show of “My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding” and we thought, hey that’s not a bad idea, that whole camper thing. What was a joke very quickly became a plan. My boyfriend loved the idea of being minimalist and living off the grid. He hates that we pay over a thousand dollars a month not including utilities and having nothing to show. We don’t want to buy a house and be responsible for expensive repairs and be stuck somewhere. The housing market is terrible and we just watched a few people lose their houses due to dropping values. So the new plan was get an RV and move to Colorado. We started watching YouTube, reading, blogs, and doing research and the more we learned the more we thought about it. There wasn’t a whole lot out there on full time stationary RVers, they all seemed to be nomads, but why and how? We wanted information on being stationary, we were going to move, get jobs, and just live in an RV rather than a house or apartment. Then it clicked. The whole point of the lifestyle is to get away from all that and that’s what we want. So why are we trying to fit this new lifestyle back into the cookie cutter we want out of? We don’t fit in and we don’t want the cookie cutter life. We don’t want (human) children or to buy a house and work Monday through Friday nine to five and have a white picket fence. We want to pack up the essentials, experience life, and see this country with our three furry kids, that’s what we want. So what’s the plan now? Learn as much as we can in the coming months, finish my degree, trade in both vehicles for one, get an RV, and GO travel! I have been working as an LPN for the past 5 years and last week just started the LPN to RN program. If all goes well, I will graduate in May 2016. Around that time we would get an RV, in order to be out of our apartment at the end of July when our lease is up. We will most likely stick around the area for a couple months living in the RV and continuing to work in order to save some money before we head out for real. I’m hoping to get a job as a travel nurse and we aren’t sure about other details we are working on it. My boyfriend works as a Family Care Case Manager and that job doesn’t travel well so we will find other ways to make income as well. We are thinking storage auctions, flea markets, ebay, and all kinds of fun stuff. We did our first flea market last weekend and it was a success. This year will be a learning process as we find ways to make money as well as research traveling and RV’s. We plan to attend RV shows in order to make an informed purchase. We will be getting rid of all of our belongings throughout the year. Most of all we will be trying to survive. I’m barely working now that the nursing program started so things are bound to get interesting. How will we balance finances, school, work, relationship, planning, ect? I wanted to document the process from the start, because all the stuff I came across was from people who had been doing it for years. I want you to be able to see the entire process and not just learn from my mistakes, but watch them happen and laugh at them. It’s going to be quite a year, but we’re in this together chasing a dream. So RV crazy or what? What do you think?

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